Pulling out my hair

Shawn has been gone now for about a month and half and I feel like I'm pulling out my hair everyday. It's amazing how much those few hours at night when your spouse gets home from work can give you a break from being the sole parent. I am really missing those few hours. The boys are so demanding, as they should be, but it's draining me. I'm beginning to forget who "Rachael" is because I"m too busy being "mom" "dad" "grandparents" "playmate". I'm exhausted. I really don't know how single parents do it. There should be an organization for single parents that lets them drop their kids off once a week for a few free hours.

For all of you that have your husbands home, take advantage and enjoy every moment. Let them take care of the kids so that you can enjoy being yourself for awhile.

Friday night fun

Our Friday night fun started with a clam chowder dinner at our friend's house and then we were off to a Halloween Party.

As you can see, the boys are going to be Batman and Robin for "Trick or Treat" night. Caleb was very excited to wear his costume. I'm hoping to get our money's worth and wear it a couple of more times before Halloween night.

After the party, the boys came home and did some wrestling on the floor in their pjs.

I'm not sure who won the match, but both got in some good moves.

After wrestling, it was time for some popcorn and a movie, "Hero of the Railway", which we have watched every day for the last month, but they both picked it out to watch as their Friday night movie....again!!!!

Le Soliel Field Trip

Caleb had his first school field trip and I may have been more excited than he was, although, he was pretty excited about riding a school bus. The trip was to Yokosuka Le Soleil, which is an agricultural park. The surrounding fields are lined with cabbage this time of year and the park displayed Cosmos and Marigold flowers. The park included a small petting zoo, go-cart track, observation hill that over looked the ocean, horses, Koi ponds, a train, and bumper cars.

This is his class and his teacher, Ms. Williams. There's actually a total of 12 children, but not all could make the trip.

This is what pure happiness looks like. He got to drive a go-cart (of course, I was in charge of gas and brake) and he did awesome.

We never came close to hitting the wall. It's like he's done this before. I'm sure in his sleep, he has.

Ok, this was so weird. I'm not sure if this was their idea of a Halloween display or if these figures always have pumpkin heads.

There was an entire field of these figures, almost like a war scene.

They had pony rides, but we weren't there for the right times.

Caleb makes a cute cowboy.

Goats

He loved feeding the goats. At one point, he had four of them at once trying to get food from his hand.

Thomas the Train, bumper car. Thomas is everywhere in Japan. And he's not cheap. This ride was 200 yen, (approximately $2) for 60 seconds of fun.

The Koi pond had swan boats to rent. Who ever came up with putting a swan on a fishing boat? The boats are peddle powered, meaning "mommy peddle faster".

And of course we rode the train..

This is a picture of Caleb and McKenzie. They are two peas in a pod. They talked the whole way to the park and McKenzie was in the back of the bus and we sat in the very front seat....

And this is the "trio", as Ms. Williams calls them. They do everything together at school. And at home, Caleb talks about Allen and McKenzie all the time!

We had such a great time. It was awesome to spend some time with just Caleb. I kinda missed those days, until we got back on the bus to come home and Caleb and I both decided that we missed Riley.

It was nice to see how Caleb interacts with his classmates and where he fits into the hierarchy. He's definitely a leader, which surprised me. I've seen him be a follower so many times on the playground with other kids, but not in a closed group like his class. It was very interesting to see.

Where have I been?

I can't believe how long it's been since I've posted and it's even harder to believe that no one has sent me an email wondering where I've been. It feels like we've been busy, but I can't really tell you with what....

We have been taking advantage of the awesome weather. The humidity is down, the temps are down, and the sun has been up. Last weekend, we spent an entire day out in town enjoying the weather, the people and the shopping.

Of course, Riley still gets so much attention when we walk outside the gate.

The boys love the sun.

And love having fun in the sun.

Caleb made a couple of purchases

but his "Thomas the Train" calendar find was his favorite.

Park Fun

Typhoon Melor has passed along with the rain that had covered us for the last 2 weeks. The air seems to be clean and crisp now and you can detect in it that Autumn is on it's way.

The beautiful weather inspired Amy and I to get the boys out of the house and to our favorite park. The boys had been so cooped up with the weather and being sick that this was probably their first play date outside in a month. And we needed it as much as the boys did.

For those of you with boys, you know and understand what happens when they don't have the opportunity to express their energy. For those of you without boys, they become MONSTERS when too much energy has been stored for too long.

Zachary did not want to share the Fire Truck with Riley.

But, Caleb was more than happy to share the plane with Riley. And gave Riley the ride of this life.

Helping to disinfect

Our house has been infested with the flu bug. It started with Riley running a temp of 103 and then two days later Caleb vomiting in the car. So when everyone started feeling better this morning, I decided it was time to disinfect EVERYTHING! I was cleaning door handles and water facets with Lysol spray and cleaning the couches with Lysol wipes. I must have appeared to be having lots of fun disinfecting because the boys couldn't wait to help.

Caleb was really concentrating on his cleaning. And he was wiping everything in his sights.

I'm so lucky to have such great helpers!